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My name is Meg the founder of (You are not losing it) YANLI. 

My specialty is coaching, empowering, and educating on how to break the cycle of generational trauma by breaking free from the bondage of emotional shackles. Do you know you were born a thrive? Yes its your birth right but it all dedicated by your mental and emotional health. Based on what you might have been through or the patterns you see in your family, this might be hard to believe.

My goal is to unleash the thriver in you. I will educate empower and provide guidance on how to break the emotional shackles which hinders success in different areas of your life

My coaching services are tailored to enable you to realize your potential, act with confidence and intentions, gain control and authority over your life, take charge and flourish.

My services include highlighting and looking  at depth on the areas of emotional struggle. This  include but are not limited to; codependency, boundaries, limiting beliefs, negative self-talk, and  walking  you through the steps to overcome and offer the support needed during the process

I'm passionate in coaching on emotional healing and raising awareness on hidden domestic (narcissistic) abuse. There was a time I felt so broken, alone, lost and struggled with challenges that shows up on the healing journey. These challenges included but not limited to triggers, anger, bitterness, the emotional crush, inner critic, self-doubt, co-parenting, and anxiety.  Have you ever talked to someone, a friend, family, or may be a professional and did not get the connection? sometimes you felt condemned, blamed and miss understood?  Maybe you connected but you did not get the help or solutions you were looking for? Probably the help offered did not seem to solve your specific issues.  Navigating through the healing journey after narcissistic or abusive relationship can be very challenging and lonely. One day you feel like you got this but another day you feel crushed and ready to give up. Sometimes you wonder if you made the right decision. Working with someone who understand the path you are walking on and all the emotions that one faces can makes a huge difference and bring the desired results much sooner. 

I’m a certified emotional health recovery coach trauma informed, and I understand this path through personal experience.

Working with me will give you a clarity and answer all questions that comes up on the healing journey and enable you to overcome the obstacles that hinders or slows the healing process and achieve your goals faster. 

Thrive after betrayal


Did a painful relationship leave you.....

  • Feeling not good enough and rejected?

  • Feeling like a stranger to yourself?

  • struggling with low self  confidence and self love

  • Feeling isolated and lonely?

  • Feeling empty, yearning for inner peace/healing

  • Feeling shame guilt and fear?

  • Feeling like a fraud, full of self doubt?

  • Feeling hurt, resentful and angry ?

  • Full of self doubt and second guessing yourself?

  • Filled with anxiety, panic or episodes of anxiety rush?

  • struggling to maintain healthy relationships?

  • feeling overwhelmed, stuck or lost?

  • Struggling to do the things you love doing?

  • Feeling used and scammed with no justice?

  • Feeling like you are not where you want to be in life??

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Betrayal is the shattering of expectations, beliefs, or worldviews that causes a person to feel some sort of psychological or moral conflict. Although we naturally take betrayal personally, betrayal says more about the person betraying you than it does about you. Chances are that may be you are wondering can someone recover after betrayal? Where should one start? Will I be able to trust again?

Betrayal causes a wide variety of mental, emotional, and physical responses from stress, anxiety, and feelings of resentment, bitterness, and overwhelm to muscular tension, stomach upset. You can change the future, start where you are by identify the limiting beliefs and patterns that keeps you bound by emotional shackles. 

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