My name is Meg the founder of (You are not losing it) YANLI. 

My specialty is empowering and educating women on emotional shackles and how to break free from the bondage of emotional shackles to realize their potential, act with confidence and intentions to achieve their goals. You were born a thriver! My goal is to unleash that thriver in you. I will educate empower and provide guidance on breaking emotional shackles. which holds you from thriving. My coaching services are tailored to enable you realize your potential, act with confidence and intentions, gain control and authority over your life, take charge and flourish. My services include highlighting and focusing on what you need to know in order to understand the daily challenges that shows up on your daily life and how to overcome.



I'm passionate in coaching on emotional healing and raising awareness on hidden domestic (narcissistic) abuse. There was a time I felt so broken, alone, lost and struggled with challenges that shows up on the healing journey in our daily life. These challenges included but not limited to triggers, anger, bitterness, the emotional crush, inner critic, self-doubt, co-parenting, and anxiety.  Have you ever talked to someone, a friend, family, or may be a professional and did not get the connection? sometimes you felt condemned, blamed and miss understood?  Maybe you connected but you did not get the help or solutions you were looking for? Probably the help offered did not seem to solve your specific problems. Navigating through the healing journey after narcissistic or painful abuse can be very challenging and lonely. One day you feel like you got this but another day you feel crushed and ready to give up. You sometimes wonder if you made the right decision. Working with someone who understand the path you are walking on and all the emotions that one faces can makes a huge difference and bring the desired results much sooner. 

I’m a certified emotional health recovery coach trauma informed, and I understand the path through personal experience.

Working with me will give you a clarity and answer all questions that comes up on the healing journey and enable you to overcome the obstacles that hinders or slows the healing process and achieve your goals faster.   


     Did a painful relationship leave you.....

  • Feeling not good enough and rejected?

  • Feeling like a stranger to yourself?

  • struggling with low self  confidence and self love

  • Feeling isolated and lonely?

  • Feeling empty, yearning for inner peace/healing

  • Feeling shame guilt and fear?

  • Feeling like a fraud, full of self doubt?

  • Feeling hurt, resentful and angry ?

  • Full of self doubt and second guessing yourself?

  • Filled with social anxiety, panic or episodes of anxiety rush?

  • struggling to maintain healthy relationships?

  • feeling overwhelmed, stuck or lost?

  • Struggling to do the things you love doing?

  • Feeling used and scammed with no justice?

  • Feeling like you are not where you want to be in life?

  • Feeling fed up but not sure where to start ?

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